JeanOk, how many have had a reading and replay it over and over again in your mind? Ever take what is said during a session and nit pick it to death, taking it apart, contemplating what was said repeatedly , trying to hold on to what one deems as the positive aspects, and cringing and rejecting what appears to be to oneself as negative? Gotcha on that one didn’t I.
One of the reasons for this is what i refer to as reassurance rewind. One wants something to hold onto, so will attempt to imprint the memory of the reading that one has received , to hold the positive aspects for awhile longer, convince oneself that one is not crazy deluding oneself by attempting to force thought to do the job for us. It felt good to hear that ones partner will return, that the love remains despite their absence, actions or lack there of that lend one to lean toward the negative. A natural response for one to feel that everything is bleak, all signs are pointing in this direction. This applies not only in soul connection cases, but in all areas of ones life. Readings are temporary, the encouragement, support, guidance received, happiness, all of the positive components that one has derived, taken away from a session with have a tendency to fleet, don’t they. One will lose that feel good ” I can do this” aspect as the thought is taken over once again, replaced by doubt, fear, and lack of movement on ones part.
So we rewind it, bring the thought back to the forefront to recapture this sense of positivity, to convince ourselves once again that we are on the right track. Yet after awhile, the mental tape wears out, memories, recollection fades and we are rendered less capable of doing just that. So we pick up the phone and the credit card and ” reach out and touch someone” once again, obtain another reading to reestablish this sense of security, a pick me up to regain the reassurance that we were unable to hold onto from the last one, and the last one and round and round we go.
One may share with a friend the details of ones session, once again this is another way of garnering a sense of reassurance and it freshens the thoughts just a bit, doesn’t it. Bouncing the details off of another is a way that one may attempt to alleviate ones doubts, fears and fortify, pacify our minds that yes, this is good, no need to doubt it, we rewind our mental tape and search for reassurance once again in this manner. Many will find that if another finds flaws in, adds a negative twist to what we share we will raise our defenses to protect the sense of positivity that we have attained, as the tendency to move toward the negative has been ingrained in us for so long that we will fight to defend our mental state of feeling good about things as we feel ourselves starting to be overcome by our doubts and fears, and we don’t like it, do we. This is going against the grain of the positive mental outlook which one has rewound, replayed over and over to convince oneself of, so when one slides back into the negativity triggered by another person’s doubts, questions, concerns or beliefs one may just have to order up a fresh tape, another reading to try and bolster, strengthen the mind into positive thought once again.
This is why one finds themselves going through the reading rodeo, get on a good horse, get bucked off another so the only way to sustain oneself is via repetition, repeated positive information, from multiple sources even better, yeah? If he said it, and she said, and so did this one, well just by the law of averages it has to be true, we accept it and are positive once again. What is lacking here is the forward motion, the body in motion, not just the mind. We think it all to death with the head, yet the energetic body remains motionless. What has one done with the knowledge that one has attained, the guidance and direction that one has been given? Allowed it to fall idle on the mind, where it will twist and turn and fall flat. Think about this for a moment. All great products, inventions, were born out of necessity and thought. Yet without that forward motion, the thought taken to action, none of the things that we use, rely on in our lives would have ever actualized, would be lost on the one who held the idea or thought if never put forth into physical form.
Important to bring ones energy outward. Sure that one knows of or perhaps has done this oneself. Attained a wealth of knowledge, via readings regarding ones life path, perhaps having studied the esoteric arts, have a wealth of ability, creative positive energy, yet where is it? Lost on the head instead of being extended outward as a positive energy and direction guiding not only oneself but others as well. Most of us have gone the reassurance route, yet one cannot and will not stay there forever, its part of human nature to want a guarantee, test the waters before we jump in. Life involves risk. Finding peace and happiness in ones life involves risk as well. One didn’t have a guarantee that the sun would come up this morning, but we didn’t lay awake at night, we took the risk and closed our eyes and fell asleep, yeah? without worrying about it or giving it a second thought. Give yourself that much if you must for a time, its par for the course if you will, part of the process. Then take the encouragement and support that you have found and allow the knowledge that one has acquired to propel you forward, not constant thinking of how it’s all going to go down, but constant living as it does.
You hit the nail on the head on this one! I remember getting my reading done and sat there holding on to the positive, he feels this and that, this is the reason, he’ll come back after so long. I played it over and over in my head. I wrote it out, re-read it, talked to friends and then one day, it wasn’t enough. The pain was still there and I started “doubting” again. I hadn’t done the inner work, I just wanted the relationship. The Universe doesn’t work that way – you have to do the work eventually or choose to stay in the pain.