JeanThere is such a wealth of emotion that one experiences in relation to a soul connection and all of the twists and turns that one goes through, yeah? Yet one may find themselves swimming in a sea of thoughts and feelings with no clue as to where to place these feelings. So either one will attempt to squelch these feelings, place some form of a damper on them, or at least try to, or will allow emotions to build in intensity and spiral out of control, lashing out at anyone and anything that is perceived as countering or standing in the way of the thoughts and feelings that one is experiencing, not least of all, unleashing this onto oneself, resulting in depression.
When one allows these feelings to pervade each waking moment, each hour that passes, day after day, one will find themselves feeling overtaken, overpowered, outnumbered,alone and afraid. For many, this results in an attempt to quiet these feelings, find ways to stifle the pain, the depth of what one is feeling. Confusion abounds, so one will seek answers to find a way to bring it all home, to satisfy, pacify these thoughts and feelings, settle the dust so to speak, gain a sense of control when everything seems to be out of control.
During this quest for answers, mental constructs, opinions are formulated as to what this whole scenario is about, what it means to one and ones relationship with the partner in question. Isn’t this what leads most of us to seek out guidance in the first place? We want to know what in the heck is going on here, why am I so attracted to this person? Why cant I just walk away, I have in the past when relationships have ended, sure it hurt but i got over it, but this time, I cant walk away even if I tried. And try we do. How many times has one gotten angry over events that have transpired, or often times not transpired, in relation to the soul connection partner, and we say that we have had enough of this mess and are done? Till we aren’t done, yeah?
An explanation of the karmic aspects of the soul connection experience, the lessons that we are to learn from it can feel as if we have the answers. Finally at last there is a method to the madness, it makes sense, we aren’t alone, others have experienced or are experiencing the same feelings in one shape or form or another, so we compare our stories, cases to others which causes us to settle down per se, at least for a time. We have an understanding of what is occurring and why. Or so one may think, then the doubts, questioning start again, as time places distance between the comfort obtained via a mental understanding of the process, and what one is experiencing in the physical in relation to the soul connection partner. One has had the time to do the mental gymnastics, process the information that one has acquired from often times numerous sources, and decided what seems to fit, what works for our mind. We have done what i refer to as “taking it to head”. Yet for many of us, we have more than likely taken it straight to the heart as well, big time.
So, we talk about having issues to address, work through and beyond, that its not just about the relationship, yet our heads and our hearts need it to be, yeah? This is a difficult aspect of the soul connection experience, perhaps the biggest hurdle for many. We want it to be about the relationship, we need it to be about the relationship, it was or still is a relationship, just one that isn’t flying right at the moment, but will. So of course one will feel the most comfort, settle down their emotions in the way that makes sense to them by clinging to, forming an attachment to the romanticized ideals that one has come to know in regards to soul connections.
Doesn’t everyone want to think that the pain that they are experiencing is due to the fact that the partner and the love, the emotions that one feels in regards to them is ones twin soul? This label attributes the greatest level of comfort and understanding to all of the confusion and pain that one is feeling. Big connection, big feelings makes sense to the head and the heart.
Easy to see how one will resist, reject any attempt to pull one away from the romantic toward the energetic, working on ones issues to heal will be discarded as virtual heresy. The level of comfort that one has established for oneself is shaken and rattled by universal law as applied to soul connections. Well, if men are from Mars, and women are from Venus, then universal law still applies, yeah?
Yet the soul connection experience is brought into ones life to trigger and catapult one into change. And the human experience is resistant to change, its foreign territory. What we have come to know in our lives may not seem to be the greatest, trials, tribulations, etc, but its what we have come to know, its familiar, whereas the future remains to be seen, and this is where our vulnerability lies. And so we sit, filled with emotion and lacking motion, forward movement.
Ironically we resist change, yet when things are not working for us in our lives, we want nothing more than for things to change. We enjoy the fact of having free will, the power of choice, yet free will can seem to be the biggest stumbling block for one at the moment, yeah? One feels out of control, yet refuses to exercise control over the aspects of their lives where one does have a say, things that are mutable are left to chance. This is the area where it is important to exercise ones ability to affect change. To take all this emotion and put it into motion, allowing the pain and heartache to work for us, not against us. Intent moves energy, all the pain and heartache can apply some serious intent to move us through and beyond the soul connection experience, get us moving along our paths, healing body mind and spirit. Putting emotion into motion will move one toward a place of profound healing, finally finding the peace and contentment which one has been seeking all along.
