Taking Back Our Power: Energy Withdrawal

Upon taking backing our power, withdrawing our energy from the soul connection, we may experience a sense of let down, feelings of being blue, that the connection is somehow not as strong, or lost all together.

I feel that this is a normal response. It takes a lot of mental and emotional gymnastics when we are dealing with these runner situations.

The energy is intense, flying high most of the time. It’s exciting, albeit in a negative way, so when things calm, we are no longer the cork bobbing around on the waves so to speak, it’s natural to feel this shift. But the key to this is it’s what needs to be done in order for us to function in our daily lives. We cannot continue the fever pitch we are used to and carry on with our day to day lives. Would be nice if that’s all that we had to do is deal with the soul connection issues but life doesn’t work that way. If we were to continue at this rate, eventually we would reach a breaking point, physically, mentally and emotionally tapped out.

I feel that one often times is fearful that if they pull their energy back, somehow the connection will die. We don’t feel all that heat, intensity, so therefore we must be losing them. So we continue keeping our energy there.

But from what i have experienced and learned, this is exactly what we cannot allow ourselves to do, it’s almost like cutting off our nose to spite our face. We need the energy expended on them for ourselves at this point. If it’s the chance of having the relationship with the one that has turned tail and run that one is seeking, this may not happen over night as we all know, and if we keep giving up our power to them, i do not see that we will have the energy to live our own lives and endure the separation if you will in the interim. Energetically let them go, free them to do whatever it is that they need to do. Pulling the energy back, harnessing it so that we may do the work that we need to do also.

Many of us are such caring, loving people that we often deny our true feelings. We keep sending them Love and Light, that’s what we feel we are supposed to do, yeah? But let’s get real. Don’t you often times feel that a little $#%@! is more like it?
Some of the things that many of us have gone through with these runner situations are beyond comprehension for sure.

If we can embrace the concept that there will be a reconnection, it’s destined, then let’s also not wish them back too quickly. We may feel like we want them with us today, but if they aren’t ready yet, they will just turn tail and run again, and if we feel that it hurt the first time, yikes! get ready for a whole new world of pain.

Pulling back our energy may seem difficult to do at the time, but ultimately it is exactly what has to happen. Maybe time for a new approach? Hey, you’ve tried keeping it in there and see what hasn’t happened, pull it back and see what does

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