JeanIs reconnection rare?
A question that I have been asked quite often, and sure that many have asked in their mind as well. Kind of a two pronged question, because the one that follows is why do we not hear about it if it isn’t? People want to hear that the partners come together, but really want to know that they are together in a relationship more so than the fact that they have reconnected. I understand this as it is true, there aren’t many postings out there from those who have reconnected with their soul connection partner is there. So lets take a look at this for a moment.
So what does reconnection mean? To connect again. Many take this to automatically mean that the partners are together in a relationship, that they are ” picking up where they left off” per se. Yet reconnection simply means that the one who has been absent, not willing, ready or able to walk the walk returns. This can be via a phone call, visit, email or text or what have you, they make contact again. This is a turning point per se in the respect that now that they are back, a relationship is once again a possibility. Can’t have a relationship with someone who isn’t in contact with you or even around, possibly not even knowing where they are, yeah? Important to see that reconnection is just what the word means, to connect again, it doesn’t mean “automatic re-relationship”, although this is a choice for the partners at this point, to exercise their free will. No, reconnection is not rare, it happens quite often, part of the process of resolution of karma and balancing of energies.
Now the other part of the question is why don’t we hear about it, where are the ones who have gone on and are in a relationship once again. It does make it look as if it never happens, doesn’t it. You don’t hear about it, or the only ones for the most part are either doing their work and speaking about releasing their pain, have experienced reconnection but are not with the partner, or the ones who are in a relationship with their soul connection partner and speak of it are so few and far between that it makes one wonder whether it is all a bunch of baloney or that it is so rare that its hard to relate to what is being said by myself or others who speak to it, yeah? I feel ya on this one.
There are several reasons for this that I can share that may bring you some clarity here. You know how I mentioned about being caught in the pain loop when participating in a forum setting? Well its similar when it comes to this topic as well. Those who are in pain like to share it, speak to it, and these are ones who are separated from their soul connection partner. One can relate to this aspect, and feel that they are not alone because others are experiencing the same feelings, thoughts, etc. We hear from them , they are in the part of the process where perhaps we find ourselves, reading about it, looking for answers and the like. And we know how we like to talk about it, it seems to help us when we are able to express this, get it out where someone can relate to it, people in the same boat read it and understand. You know how many people like to hear this stuff, yeah? No one wants to listen but people going through it sure will, and do.
People who are working or have worked through their pain and have not reconnected with their partner as of yet recognize another’s pain, have found their way out, and are willing to share this so that another may find their way through and beyond the pain as well. We should be grateful that there are ones who are willing to do this, they are sending us a lifeline per se, showing us that peace can be found within the experience, as we know that this may not seem possible from where we sit at the moment. Working through our issues, learning the lessons that we are being shown is an integral part of the soul connection experience and working our way through it. To hear that others are doing their work lends support to us as we struggle to find our way and begin to do ours. You are not alone in your pain, or in working through your issues, as others are doing this as well and share that with us.
The ones who have reconnected and are in relationship with the soul connection partner have moved on in their lives and often times one will not hear from them once this occurs. We may hear from them once in awhile, but for the most part one will not. There is no pain anymore for one reason, and they do not engage in conversation regarding it. They are not on the soul connection wagon as I call it, they continue on with their lives and do not look back. They are now outside of the loop and do not step back into it. The best that I can offer one is to be glad that there are ones who are willing to give us a glimpse into the soul connection experience from whatever part of the process that they find themselves in. This is an important lesson, the interconnectedness of people. One which many people struggle with. Oh goodness there she is talking about that interconnectedness thing again, yeah? When something is “over with” if you will, to come back and share to help another who stands much to gain from hearing what you have to say is important. I myself have chosen to step back into the experience to share what I have learned and observed over time.
I jokingly will say that if I were to tell you all about my reconnections, had I chosen to proceed with a relationship you may just be reading your first article about the soul connection reconnection with ensuing relationship which ended in divorce, what a downer that would be, yeah ? lol Yet I was given the opportunity to make my choice, the one that is right for me and I did just that. It can be a tenuous thing, people want to hear about the people coming together and I can understand this, but heres the problem with this. Many will focus on the relationship aspect alone, and not work through their issues and move forward to a place where this is even possible.
Just think, this site and the articles were born out of my connection experiences and what I have learned and observed over time in my own life and the lives of many others. There is no pain, I can step in and step out of the experience with ease, yet without the understanding of interconnectedness of all people, you wouldn’t be reading this or any articles for that matter from me, because I would have moved on as well and wouldn’t be here to share with you. I am glad that I learned this well. Do I take this seriously? Most definitely. Each person reading or conversing on the other end of the line or the computer is not but a user name or a voice, but someone with a pulse and a soul, seeking knowledge and understanding. Your life is serious business. My goal is to provide you with food for the soul, sunlight on your face, not sunshine blown up the other end. We have all had enough of that for several lifetimes I am sure.
Is reconnection rare? Not at all, happens all the time. Its the understanding of what reconnection means and the lack of the many who have experienced this who speak of and to it, who pay it forward, that renders it to appear this way, that’s all.
