JeanI work to the Psychic Guidance Code Of Practice, yet to me it is more than a code of practice, it is a code of life. Whether one works in the area of providing psychic guidance to others or not, the code of practice is something that we can all strive to work to in our everyday lives.
When one is attempting to convey a message to another, and it becomes apparent that the recipient is not understanding what one is trying to tell them, does one stick to the same procedure and plan? or do you come after it with a differing approach, pull another tool out of the tool box per se, say it or show them in a different way that perhaps they can better understand, see or hear what you are telling them more clearly. Not as important how we get it across, just that we do. Sometimes one method of delivery works well for one person and is not the way to approach another, so if we remain flexible, have different methods and ways that we use to convey our feelings, thoughts or a concept, whatever the case may be, we can ensure that the one who we are interacting with is afforded the best possible chance to come to an understanding of exactly what it is that we are trying to teach or show them, we individualize it to accommodate each person this way.
Perhaps at times we have all had to deliver news, say things that may not leave us as the bearer of glad tidings,things that people may not like or want to hear or are in line with the individuals personal opinion. But they need to hear it. Ever have to tell a friend that they are acting way out of line, see that someone is heading for disaster in one way or another and know full well that you are going to have your head taken off because of it, but out of love and respect for the person do it anyway? Someone is hurting and wants us to tell them something that will make them feel better, yet perhaps what we have to tell will not, so we go along with it and say things, try to find ways that will make the person feel better. In the long run that is actually doing the person an injustice. Ever have someone tell you that ” you aren’t telling me anything that i don’t already know, or “Tell me something new?” Maybe just what the doctor ordered, them to hear it again, yeah? New doesn’t necessarily mean different or better. If one goes around tooting their own horn, speaking to things of which they have no knowledge, it will catch up with them in the end, always best to speak to that of which one knows and if you don’t know, say so, there is no harm in admitting that one has no knowledge of a given topic. We can’t all be experts on everything, can we.
When someone asks you for advice, what your thoughts are, how you would handle a situation, you may offer the advice to them but the responsibility for their actions still resides with them. You lend a helping hand, support, but the ultimate decision of what a person does still lies with them. Whatever action or lack of action that someone takes in response to what one has offered as suggestions in support of them is given as options, nothing more or less. If they do what you suggest, that is fine, if not that is fine too, but they are the ones who make their own decisions, one cannot do this for them, nor should we try. This is ones ability to choose, their free will, and they must exercise this. Offering support to another may be as simple as allowing the person to express themselves and know that they are being heard, being non judgmental and remaining objective, one doesn’t need one feeding into their emotional pain. Where has the ” you poor dear” comments, someone sitting down and crying with us ever really gotten us? It doesn’t help anyway, does it. So one cannot go there, its not affording the one who you are wishing to support any good, its dis-empowering.
Isn’t it good to know that everything in life isn’t fixed, that you do have some input as to future events? Life does work in sequences of events, in cycles. Ever look back and think of a time in ones life that everything seemed to be going wrong, when you were caught in a negative cycle where one thing after another seemed to be a burden? perhaps you are in one of those cycles now. It’s hard at the time isn’t it to see that there is anything positive that can occur. Until that cycle ends and then its like what the heck was that all about, and you now have a life that is so unlike anything that you ever knew could exist. Those cycles are where tremendous lessons are learned and where growth is achieved. We have choice in our lives and the choices that we make have an effect on the timing of things. We may choose to stop at the grocery on the way home from work, so we arrive home later than usual, or we put the pedal to the metal and get home in record time. Other people who we interact with have the ability to choose to do things now, right away, which hastens the timing of events, or puts them off and procrastinates causing a delay in the timing of certain events. We see and do this all the time, so why should it come as a surprise to us that in soul connection situations where the person has run, both parties can choose to either hasten or delay the timing of events? Yet we want a time placed on something that hasn’t been decided yet.
Have you ever confided something in someone, told them ” not to tell anyone” and then find out that the whole bloody town knows your secret? Or you tell someone your innermost thoughts and fears, whether it be a partner or friend and then when angry with you they come after you, throw it up in your face? Now that is a lovely feeling isn’t it. If someone thinks enough of you, trusts you to relate personal confidences with you, it is important that one respects this confidence and maintains it. Perhaps it is in a weak moment or a strong one, doesn’t matter, but it is important to maintain a mutual respect by upholding the confidence that someone places in you. A person leaves themselves wide open per se when revealing their troubles, their feelings to another, this is an honor to be upheld and helps to ensure the growth of the parties involved. A person who has had their confidence, their trust abused will close down to being assisted by another in the future, possibly burying whatever it is that is concerning them in the process and we know that isn’t good, huh.
Doesn’t it all come down to respect? Respect for each other, regardless of race, color, religion or creed is not only a good code of practice, but a great code of life, one that we all can adhere to and apply in our lives.
