When one continues to focus on the relationship aspect of the soul connection experience, one will become aware of , privy to many things of which one would rather not know for sure. Yet we continue to do it, don’t we. We want answers and every action or lack there of that the soul connection partner makes is held to our own private scrutiny isn’t it. One will have their own scale of measurement if you will, the likelihood that they are getting ready to return based off of what we see or don’t see, the things that the partner does or doesn’t do applied to this personal level of probability which we have established in our minds. We cling to the details in a hope that something will show us that, yes, this is real. So we hang on every word, email, text, every glance or look that they exhibit our way or perhaps not even our way, looking for a sign, a clue that will lend us to believe that yes, they are still in this with us and things will work out the way that we want that they should, the way that we desire them to, them back with us in a relationship. Yet with this we often times will find ourselves reaching don’t we, the simplest blink is held to investigation, someone give us something please, unveil the hidden meaning, show us that we are making headway with this partner and that they are working their way back to us. (more…)