February, 2010

The Chameleon Syndrome: Kindness & Boundaries

Tuesday, February 23rd, 2010

So, you treat others with kindness, compassion and empathy, in the manner in which you would like to be treated yourself. Hows that working for you? Perhaps one feels that somehow, even though they are good to others, one always seems to receive the short end of the stick. Cannot fathom why people do not seem to reciprocate ones kindness, and may even act in direct opposition to this. Kindness begets kindness, yeah? Or so one would think. One may find themselves wondering if their kindness is seen as weakness in some way, a free ticket to take advantage of oneself, a sign on ones back that says kick me. I am kind to people, why are people not responding in the same way to me? One can see it if they acted unkind, rude, etc. to another, so find it difficult to comprehend as to why this occurs and how to turn this around. (more…)

When Will They Call? : The Time Frame Game

Thursday, February 18th, 2010

How many of us have asked this question? When will he or she call? Perhaps the number one question that one asks when experiencing a soul connection who has run, yeah? When are they going to pick up the phone and resume contact. a lot of money has been spent by many who are in search of the answer to this question. Not like ones friends are going to be able to answer this question for one, correct? So out comes the credit card and a click on the call now button and the answers are within ones reach. One seeks out a “psychic” for the answer to this burning question, and may very well be given a date and or time that contact will occur. Yet often times the date and time come and go, and ones phone never rings. So why does everything hinge on a date ,time, a phone call. What is the real question that one is asking? What is it that one is really wanting to know, the call question runs much deeper than this, doesn’t it. (more…)

New Look

Saturday, February 13th, 2010

I decided to give the site a new look with nice healing colors, and make it a little bit easier on the eyes while you read the articles. We’re looking mighty good, yeah? Relax and enjoy!

Valentines Day Roses: A Lesson In Love

Saturday, February 13th, 2010

I would like to share a story of something that I experienced as a lesson in love, not only for Valentines Day, but for every day. I understand that this can be a rough time emotionally esp. for those who are alone. February 14th comes around regardless of whether one is in a relationship or not, yeah? Perhaps one is single at this time and doesn’t have a partner, has broken up with or is separated from them, going through or already divorced, has to work, is away on business or the partner has transitioned from this life and is no longer with one. One may be going through the soul connection experience and the partner is out of contact or is with another. Whatever the reason, one finds themselves alone. And its Valentines Day, “the day of love.”

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The Forum Pain Loop

Saturday, February 13th, 2010

Ever wonder why one sees soul connection forums start up, last for a time and then close, or why there seems to be discord more often than harmony in what is supposed to be a place of love, peace, healing and growth? Why a place where one would think that they can interact with others, share a common bond, experience camaraderie with others who are going through the soul connection experience, gain support and feel respected ends up being something quite the opposite of this? As one who has administrated, moderated and participated in by posting in forums, I would like to address this topic and shed some light as to why forums are not a venue that is effective in the way that one would think they would be.

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On A Scale Of 1-10, What Is Your Pain Quotient?

Saturday, February 13th, 2010

Many times over the years I have asked a patient to rate their pain level on a scale of 1-10, with one being the lowest level and ten being the highest level of pain that they have ever experienced. This is in reference to ones physical pain in response to injury or illness. Wonder how one would rate their emotional pain on a scale of 1-10 when experiencing a soul connection?

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Taking Issue With Issues

Saturday, February 13th, 2010

Ok, how many out there do not have any issues, raise your hand. Funny how we don’t feel that we have any issues, we have it all together, deem ourselves to be mentally and emotionally healthy, stable individuals. So then we experience a soul connection partner who runs and all of a sudden any sense of stability in any way shape or form runs right off with them.

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Dear Santa: Skip The Stocking But Please Fill The Void

Saturday, February 13th, 2010

Ok, raise your hand if the number one thing on your Christmas wish list is having ones soul connection runner return. What, again? The same as last year and perhaps for several years before that. Maybe many Christmas bells have chimed. Many carols have been sung, yet one still finds themselves alone, apart from the soul connection partner who has run. Maybe we could Xerox that wish list, submit it over and over again. But then again,” he knows when we are sleeping…” so he knows what we are thinking for sure, so guess one doesn’t need a list. EVERYONE knows what one is thinking, we have burned their ears with it time after time.

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Happy Thanksgiving

Saturday, February 13th, 2010

I would like to take this time to say thanks to all of you who view the site. I have had the pleasure of speaking with many of you, and hope that the articles continue to be of assistance to all who read them.

I am thankful for the opportunity to help one come to a place of understanding and peace. Happy Thanksgiving– stay safe in mind, body and spirit.

The Double Edged Sword Irony

Saturday, February 13th, 2010

Most of us I am sure have been attracted to, at one point in time or another, someone who is either dating, living with, or married to another. For some, this is where any possibility of a relationship with this person ends. Yet for another, they will continue to pursue a relationship with them.

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