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I have been guided to move this article to the forefront, so here it is. It’s called “Back To The Basics”

A soul connection was brought into our lives to awaken us to the incredible power of the Universe. When the partner leaves, we are left feeling somewhat shattered and dazed by it all, so begin our quest for answers. If we go back to the basics, we can see how we already have these answers, and how straying from the cosmic laws how they apply in soul connections, loss of faith, and allowing the ego to live are the biggest mistakes that we can make. So lets do that, go back to the basics for a moment.

When we encounter a runner situation, we have many issues that are brought to the surface, perhaps we never realized that anything was amiss prior to this point. Well, here are our issues, up close and personal, where we can now see them and they can be addressed, worked through.

We understand that failure to embrace the connection, the intensity of it often times triggers a fear based reaction in the partner, so they run. We have karma to be resolved with this individual, and in higher level connections, a reconnection with the partner will occur to balance and resolve this karma. The connection is destined, the relationship is not, it is a part of free will. There will be a return of ones free will, as the Universe will ensure that balance is maintained, as in all things, balance.

So with that being said, we can begin to look at how straying away from this is where all the problems that we encounter stem from. Not having faith that there is something bigger than us at work here, that is guiding our lives, moving us in the direction along our destined path is what ultimately prevents us from finding that place of contentment, peace, personal and spiritual growth that we are
seeking.

I feel that a large part of the pain that we experience is that we want the relationship. We are hurt, angry, confused. We have taken a massive hit to our self esteem. We feel insecure, perhaps had no clue that they would run.The ego wants answers. From them. So we go after them. Big no no there, yet sure that we all have done it, yeah? When someone is acting (or not acting) out of fear mode, and one goes chasing them per se, calling, texting, attempting to make contact with them, what I refer to as trying to force a breakthrough, understand that one isn’t going to force anything when dealing with soul connections.

So what kind of a response do we expect? So glad to hear from you? More than likely its a leave me alone, quit calling me, actually if that’s the least of what we hear we should consider ourselves lucky. Anyone coming from this place doesn’t have the answers that we are looking for, the ones that we want to hear, and fear based answers are not a true indication, the real answers anyway. So how does this feel? Crawling back with ones tail between ones legs, ego bruised and battered just a little?

But can one see what is happening here? The issues that we have, the very ones that the connection came into our lives to address are what are driving us at this point. Fear, insecurity, low self esteem, control issues etc. all providing the fuel in this search for the answers. Whats the ego feel like when we find that they are with another partner? Oh, Lord out comes competition mode, someones on our turf. Bet we look really lovely to the partner at this point, don’t we. Desperate, clinging, insecure , telling them what’s on our mind, not sure we would want to be with us at this point, yeah? We psycho analyze it all to death when if we go back to the basics we already have the answers. We don’t need apologies, a synopsis of why they left, we know why, its all part of the process. Although the details in each ones connection situation is different, the laws that govern them remain constant, they do not change.

We must work to overcome these issues. Yet we find excuses to avoid doing so. I don’t have time, i don’t know how, etc. We become virtual victims of the experience, feel loss of control versus becoming an active participant. Abandoning oneself to it doesn’t mean that we become powerless. One would think that we would welcome the work, an opportunity to take back our power as we move along our paths. We are capable of managing our energies through various tools that are available, such a yoga, meditation. We see how methods such as Ptsen nuh have allowed for dramatic change in another’s life, yet we resist, remain hesitant in taking an active role in our own healing and growth. The tools are there, but it is up to us to utilize them. We choose to keep our energy on the partner, and attempt to block theirs. But as the saying goes, If you cant stand the heat, get out of the kitchen. So get out of there. Coming from a place of power, we must concentrate on withdrawing our energy from them, not blocking theirs, a proactive role instead of a reactive one. I jokingly say to save the blocking for when one is watching Super Bowl Sunday.

If it is a connection situation in which a reconnection is necessary to balance the karma, the partner will reconnect with us at some point and one will have the opportunity to choose whether or not a relationship with the partner is desired. A return of ones free will. Yet often times we lose sight of this. Reconnection doesn’t mean an automatic relationship. We lose faith in the process, and doubt that there will be a return. Perhaps we don’t want a return, but if it is what is required to balance the karma, whether we want it or not is of no consequence, it will happen, it has to. What we may be experiencing here is that we don’t feel that there could be a relationship. Two different things.

We all have strayed from the beaten path at one point or another. We think that we know better. Yet it is beaten for a reason. Many have trodden this road before us, many will after us. The laws governing these connections weren’t invented yesterday, a figment of someones imagination. They have been there forever and a day to guide us as we journey on our path towards spiritual and personal growth and enlightenment. Abandoning oneself to the laws that guide us in these connections is our answer. The only one. When one finds themselves faltering, struggling for answers to find ones way, always go back to the basics, it will never fail you.

Ok, how many have had a reading and replay it over and over again in your mind? Ever take what is said during a session and nit pick it to death, taking it apart, contemplating what was said repeatedly , trying to hold on to what one deems as the positive aspects, and cringing and rejecting what appears to be to oneself as negative? Gotcha on that one didn’t I. (more…)

There is such a wealth of emotion that one experiences in relation to a soul connection and all of the twists and turns that one goes through, yeah? Yet one may find themselves swimming in a sea of thoughts and feelings with no clue as to where to place these feelings. So either one will attempt to squelch these feelings, place some form of a damper on them, or at least try to, or will allow emotions to build in intensity and spiral out of control, lashing out at anyone and anything that is perceived as countering or standing in the way of the thoughts and feelings that one is experiencing, not least of all, unleashing this onto oneself, resulting in depression. (more…)

The push pull, on again off again and round and round we go, yeah? For anyone who has experienced this aspect within their soul connection experience, it can be quite maddening for sure. Many have remarked that they feel as if this is the worst case scenario. If they had the ability to choose, to pick either having the soul connection partner who has run off as being completely out of contact, no hide nor hair of them in sight, or one who comes in and out of ones life over and over again, they would most definitely select the one who is gone, hands down. But we don’t get to make this choice. Or do we? (more…)

When one continues to focus on the relationship aspect of the soul connection experience, one will become aware of , privy to many things of which one would rather not know for sure. Yet we continue to do it, don’t we. We want answers and every action or lack there of that the soul connection partner makes is held to our own private scrutiny isn’t it. One will have their own scale of measurement if you will, the likelihood that they are getting ready to return based off of what we see or don’t see, the things that the partner does or doesn’t do applied to this personal level of probability which we have established in our minds. We cling to the details in a hope that something will show us that, yes, this is real. So we hang on every word, email, text, every glance or look that they exhibit our way or perhaps not even our way, looking for a sign, a clue that will lend us to believe that yes, they are still in this with us and things will work out the way that we want that they should, the way that we desire them to, them back with us in a relationship. Yet with this we often times will find ourselves reaching don’t we, the simplest blink is held to investigation, someone give us something please, unveil the hidden meaning, show us that we are making headway with this partner and that they are working their way back to us. (more…)

Is reconnection rare?

A question that I have been asked quite often, and sure that many have asked in their mind as well. Kind of a two pronged question, because the one that follows is why do we not hear about it if it isn’t? People want to hear that the partners come together, but really want to know that they are together in a relationship more so than the fact that they have reconnected. I understand this as it is true, there aren’t many postings out there from those who have reconnected with their soul connection partner is there. So lets take a look at this for a moment. (more…)

An important area that I would like to address is when one discovers that they have a soul connection with the individual who they have inquired about. What one does with this information, the understanding that you come to regarding this knowledge, is critical to your personal and spiritual growth and direction. Yet how often one will come to a misunderstanding of what exactly this means to oneself and to your life, and the experience becomes one which is wrought with misdirection and confusion due to the very knowledge which is meant to assist one to gain clarity into the spiritual aspects of what is occurring in your life. (more…)

How many of us have asked this question? When will he or she call? Perhaps the number one question that one asks when experiencing a soul connection who has run, yeah? When are they going to pick up the phone and resume contact. a lot of money has been spent by many who are in search of the answer to this question. Not like ones friends are going to be able to answer this question for one, correct? So out comes the credit card and a click on the call now button and the answers are within ones reach. One seeks out a “psychic” for the answer to this burning question, and may very well be given a date and or time that contact will occur. Yet often times the date and time come and go, and ones phone never rings. So why does everything hinge on a date ,time, a phone call. What is the real question that one is asking? What is it that one is really wanting to know, the call question runs much deeper than this, doesn’t it. (more…)

I would like to share a story of something that I experienced as a lesson in love, not only for Valentines Day, but for every day. I understand that this can be a rough time emotionally esp. for those who are alone. February 14th comes around regardless of whether one is in a relationship or not, yeah? Perhaps one is single at this time and doesn’t have a partner, has broken up with or is separated from them, going through or already divorced, has to work, is away on business or the partner has transitioned from this life and is no longer with one. One may be going through the soul connection experience and the partner is out of contact or is with another. Whatever the reason, one finds themselves alone. And its Valentines Day, “the day of love.”

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